Tell us what you think. (We'll get back to you...)
We often see great posts in the Council that don't oftentimes get exposure outside of our membership. I'm going to start cherry-picking a few of these going forward that I think will spur some interesting conversation.
This post was penned by Andrew Carusone from Lowe's Home Improvement.
Can you relate?
Posted by Andrew Carusone on Oct 20, 2011 10:09:57 AM
Don't fall for it! "Feedback" may be worse than a trap…in the end, it may be a fraud…and a hidden way of diluting or ruining true social business reform.
(Do you like apples? How do you like them apples?) Allow me to explain before you squirm too much in your seat…
First, allow me to begin my argument with the principle that "words mean things - they mean exactly what they mean." They don't mean what we wish they would mean or hope they mean.
In keeping with this principle, the scariest words in the social business arena are "communication" and "feedback". If you are a true proponent of social business, these two words should rise to the very top of your "danger" list. Here's why…
"Communication" is a word most business folks interchange with "messaging"…but they are not the same thing. Mind you, messaging matters. However, messaging is one way. It's designed to inform others. Real communication takes place between ones ears…it's the act which takes place after the message is received. It's the act of building meaning. As I've written in other blog entries, it's not "EMAIL your kids about drugs"…it's "TALK to your kids about drugs". Communication is a dialogue. It requires both sides to take a "seat at the table". Its purpose is to build understanding…not just inform. How to detect the difference? One can be "farmed out"…the other can't. If I can inform you - without having to take a "seat at the table" - it's messaging (not communication).
"This new social platform will be great! What a wonderful way to communicate with employees!" Sounds tame enough. (DANGER! What they may really be saying? "This new social platform will be great! What a wonderful way to PUBLISH CONTENT (BROADCAST) TO employees!") Instead of a "dialogue", employees get another version of an intranet (electronic pamphlet or 3-ring binder). An "explicit information bomb!" In the name of real communication - "spray and pray" is substituted. Meanwhile, the employees and leaders within your business can continue to turn their backs on any real responsibility to drive higher performance in the workplace, claim they are "on board" with the noble causes of social business…however, little to know behavior change occurs….just installation of new technology with no realization of change.
Still not sure? Let's change direction. FEEDBACK! More than a "trap"…it may in fact be a fraud when used in the context of social business. Feedback is nothing more than "spray and pray" in reverse! Feedback sounds innocent enough…even desirable. Every company does it. Heck, even I use feedback. However, it's not the purpose behind social business.
We've all heard folks say "This new social platform will be great! What a wonderful way to GATHER FEEDBACK!" (DANGER! What they may really be saying? "This new social platform will be great! What a wonderful way for EMPLOYEES TO BUNDLE THEIR GAPS IN UNDERSTANDING AND LEAVE THEM ON OUR DOORSTEP! WE'LL REVIEW AND GET BACK TO YOU LATER." Just like messaging doesn't require an employee to "take a seat at the table"…neither does feedback.
This weekend, the newspaper guy left my neighbor's paper in the street. (The kids call my neighbor "grumpy Gary".) I asked the kids to take the paper out of the street and give it to Gary. So what did they do? They ran my neighbors newspaper up to his front door, rang the doorbell - and ran away as fast as they could! Later that evening, as I was tucking the kids in bed, I asked why they did that. My 8 year old boy replied without hesitation, "We didn't want to talk to grumpy Gary". Next day, my neighbor Gary left a thank you note on our door (didn't knock, didn't ring). Having had enough, I walked my kids over to his house and rang the doorbell. When Gary answered the door, I gently made it possible for both sides to "take a seat at the table". While awkward at first, a "dialogue" soon broke out. As we walked home, my six year old little girl said "Why do they call him grumpy Gary? You're grumpier than he is. He seems nice." (higher levels of understanding achieved).



